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Abandon Me - Memoirs

by Febos, Melissa
Abandon Me - Memoirs
Abandon Me - Memoirs

Love in appearance and disappearance

Melissa Febos offers an intricately constructed memoir centered on the presence and absence of love. Jenny Offill describes it as emotionally devastating.

  • Lambda Literary Award Nominee for Lesbian Memoir/Biography (2017)
  • The Publishing Triangle Award Nominee for The Judy Grahn Award for Lesbian Nonfiction (2018)
Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.

Abandon Me - Memoirs

by Febos, Melissa
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ISBN: 9781632866585
Author: Febos, Melissa
Publisher: Bloomsbury USA
Date of Publication: 2018-02-06
Format: Soft cover
Related Collections: Creative Nonfiction, Biographies & Memoirs
Related Topics: Biography Memoir, Autobiography, Essays, Biography, Memoir
Goodreads rating: 4.2
(rated by 3358 readers)

Description

"An intricately constructed and emotionally devastating book about the appearance and disappearance of love." --Jenny Offill, author of Dept. of Speculation
 

Love in appearance and disappearance

Melissa Febos offers an intricately constructed memoir centered on the presence and absence of love. Jenny Offill describes it as emotionally devastating.

  • Lambda Literary Award Nominee for Lesbian Memoir/Biography (2017)
  • The Publishing Triangle Award Nominee for The Judy Grahn Award for Lesbian Nonfiction (2018)
Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.

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